Most days of the week you will meet people who don’t quite “get” you – sometimes they are almost “misfits”, people who simply do not understand the point of view of those around them, who almost seem to be in another world. Indeed, there’s a good chance you say “what planet is he/she on?” at least once a day…! The people who don’t quite understand those around them and the way they think tend to have a much harder time in integrating, working with others, socialising and so on. So, the researchers who conducted this new study on babies do have a point – understanding each other is fairly fundamental to success in life, which probably explains why it is a focus for our developmental processes during infancy.
But what has all this to do with your blog? Well, take a look at many blogs that exist – they appear to have been written without any consideration for the reader. The author has not, it seems, tried to understand their readers. Instead, they bang on about irrelevancies, or they give no consideration to any sensitivities, nor do they bother with things like spelling and grammar sometimes.
Yet, a quick peek into the minds of their readers and you’d find people who only want material that is directly relevant to them, people who are sensitive on certain issues – such as the use of foul language – and who do mind if things are not grammatically correct. A simply peek inside the minds of a blogger’s audience could make them write differently.
Essentially, this new baby study shows us how important it is to understand another individual’s thinking. So why is it that so many bloggers are not like babies? Instead, they appear to care not a jot about what is in the minds of their readers – resulting, no doubt, in a constant battle to attract new readers. Save yourself that effort – think like a baby and focus on what is going on inside the heads of your readers. Your blog will be all the better for it.
Related articles
- Babies understand how people think at just ten months old [Psychology] (io9.com)
- 7 Reasons No One Reads Your Blog (Except Maybe Your Mom) (problogger.net)
- Find Out What Readers Think (and Feel) About Your Blog (problogger.net)
